If you want to create a group for your images or videos use the group parameter. For example:
<a data-lightbox="group:mygroup" href="image1_lb.jpg"><img src="image1.jpg" width="180" height="120" alt="" /></a>
<a data-lightbox="group:mygroup" href="image2_lb.jpg"><img src="image2.jpg" width="180" height="120" alt="" /></a>
The gallery widget is setting the group parameter automatically. For example data-lightbox="group:24-4f3b877a9f4dd". Unfortunately the group name is dynamically generated on every page-refresh. In order to always have a static group name you can create a new style for the gallery widget. Just copy the folder widgetkit/widgets/gallery/styles/showcase/ and rename it like widgetkit/widgets/gallery/styles/lightbox_style/. In that new folder, open template.php and locate the following line (which should be almost at the top of the file):
$widget_id = $widget->id.'-'.uniqid();
Now assign a static group name by changing the line to this:
$widget_id = $widget->id.'-mygroup1';
When you now inspect the galery you will see the group name looks like 23-mygroup1 (do not forget to select your new widget style in the administration area). Now you can assign the same group name to your lightbox and all images should be in one group. For more information on how to create a custom style for a widget, have a look at our Widgetkit documentation.
PS: Please also read the support tips! You can't bring support questions up by answering yourself with "Anyone? Please ...". You make it even harder for our support team to find you question because we think it already has a lot of answers... I deleted your "bump" answers...